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How to support your friends during Ramadan

Thoughtful ways to make Ramadan more meaningful for everyone

 

By IQRA AHMAD — arts@theaggie.org

 

The month of Ramadan is approaching fast, as it begins next week, from Feb. 28 to Mar. 29. This month in the Islamic calendar marks a sacred time that is observed by Muslims around the world. It is a period of reflection, gratitude and community, in efforts to encourage better habits of patience and generosity.

If you have friends observing Ramadan, offering thoughtful gifts or simply taking the time to learn more about the significance of this month can show your support and make them feel truly appreciated. Here are ways that you can participate:

 

Learn about Ramadan: 

Acknowledging the values and practices of Ramadan can help you understand its importance. During this month, Muslims fast from dawn until sunset, refraining from food and drinks as an act of devotion and self-discipline. But Ramadan is much more than fasting — it is a time for spiritual reflection, increased prayer and acts of kindness. Giving to charity, known as Zakat, is an essential part of the month, reinforcing the values of generosity and compassion.

You can also ask your friends about their experiences and traditions. Ramadan is observed differently depending on one’s culture, region and upbringing. Many families have unique traditions, including special dishes prepared for Iftar (breaking of fast). Some might have childhood memories of staying up late for Suhoor (the pre-dawn meal) or gathering with loved ones for Taraweeh (night prayers at the mosque). Others might share how fasting has shaped their personal growth and strengthened their sense of gratitude. Asking questions can be a wonderful opportunity for you to engage with your friends and learn what Ramadan means to them.

 

Join in Iftar gatherings:

By joining your friends for Iftar, the meal that breaks the fast at sunset, you can be part of the camaraderie and spirit of Ramadan. Many families prepare special dishes for this occasion. Being part of an Iftar gathering, whether at home or in a local mosque, can be a heartwarming experience. If you’re invited, bringing a small contribution — dates, a traditional food or a dessert — can be a thoughtful indication that you care.

 

Gifts or crafts:

If you enjoy creative projects, making do-it-yourself (DIY) Ramadan crafts can be a fun experience to celebrate. A handmade Ramadan card with a message can brighten your friend’s day. You can also create decorative lanterns inspired by the traditional Fanous, which are commonly used during the month, or put together a countdown calendar to mark the days leading up to Eid al-Fitr.

Thoughtful gifts can make a world of difference in showing your appreciation for your friends observing Ramadan. A box of dates and snacks makes for a perfect and practical gift, while scented candles or essential oils can help create a relaxing atmosphere after long fasting hours. Books or journals also make wonderful presents, providing space for contemplation and reflection throughout the month.

 

Celebrate Eid with them:

As Ramadan comes to an end, it is followed by Eid al-Fitr, a joyous celebration marking the conclusion of fasting. If your friends invite you to join in their Eid festivities, it is an amazing opportunity to celebrate together. Bringing a small gift, sharing in traditional foods and simply being present in their happiness can make the day even more special for them. Your kindness and willingness to understand their experience will not go unnoticed, and your friendship will be all the stronger for it.

 

As Ramadan approaches, these thoughtful suggestions provide meaningful ways to support and celebrate with those observing it. By taking the time to understand and engage in Ramadan, you can make this month even more special for those around you.

Written by: Iqra Ahmad — arts@theaggie.org